Having an active social life is important. Perusing boulevards, malls, bars, or clubs for amusement is healthy, particularly when alcohol and drugs are left out of the equation.
Making friends and growing your social circle is one of the most difficult, yet gratifying activities. We are afraid to cold approach strangers. Worse off, society tends to denigrate such activities. However, if you are waiting for a more "comfortable" environment to meet people (whether it be the office, classroom, or friend's party), then you are missing out on at least 90 percent of opportunities to grow your network.
The benefits of a large social circle are multifaceted. Instantaneous access to new venues, opportunities, and experiences is just the start. The important thing to remember is you must always seek to give more than you receive.
"What if I don't have anything to offer?" Everyone has something to offer. For example, I do not have many assets, nor do I consider myself a very wealthy person. What I do have is a global network. I have traveled all over the world, and made friends with people from all corners of the map. When someone asks for an introduction, I'm happy to help. In fact, I insist. It's the single most valuable tool in my belt.
Find your value, grow that network, and make time for your social life.
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